Indlela yokunceda abantwana bamelane nomothuko
IZiko loLwazi lweeNkcubeko ezahlukeneyo, ngemvume kunye nentsebenziswano neBhunga lababaleki baseDenmark , lipapashe incwadana yolwazi malunga nendlela yokunceda abantwana bajongane noxinzelelo.
Indlela yokunceda umntwana wakho
- Mphulaphule umntwana. Mvumele umntwana athethe ngamava akhe, iingcinga neemvakalelo zakhe, kwanangezo zinzima.
- Yenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla kunye namaxesha amiselweyo okutya, ixesha lokulala njalo njalo.
- Dlala nomntwana. Abantwana abaninzi bajongana namava anzima ngokudlala.
- Yiba nomonde. Abantwana banokufuna ukuthetha ngento enye rhoqo.
- Nxibelelana nonontlalontle, utitshala wesikolo, umongikazi wesikolo okanye iziko lezempilo, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba izinto ziya ziba nzima kakhulu okanye iintlungu ziya zisiba mandundu.
Ubalulekile
Abazali nabanakekeli ngabantu ababaluleke kakhulu ebomini bomntwana, ingakumbi xa abantwana befuna uncedo lokujongana namava abuhlungu. Wakuba uyazi indlela amava abuhlungu abachaphazela ngayo abantwana, kulula ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokuziphatha kwabo kwaye kulula nokubanceda.
Impendulo eqhelekileyo
Ingqondo isabela kwiimeko ezibangela uxinezeleko ngokuvelisa iihomoni zoxinzelelo, ezenza umzimba ube kwimeko yokuphaphama. Oku kusinceda sicinge ngokukhawuleza kwaye sihambe ngokukhawuleza, ukuze sikwazi ukusinda kwiimeko ezisongela ubomi.
Ukuba amava anzima kakhulu kwaye ahlala ixesha elide, ingqondo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nomzimba, uhlala uphaphile, nokuba imeko esongela ubomi iphelile.
Ukufuna inkxaso
Abazali banokuhlangabezana neziganeko ezibuhlungu ezinokuchaphazela impilo-ntle yabo. Iimpawu zoxinzelelo zinokudluliselwa kubazali ziye ebantwaneni babo kwaye zinokuchaphazela abantwana nokuba abakayifumani ngqo imeko ebuhlungu. Kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo kunye
thetha nomntu ngamava akho.
Thetha nomntwana
Abazali abaninzi bayabagxotha abantwana kwiincoko zabantu abadala malunga namava abuhlungu kunye neemvakalelo ezinzima. Ngokwenza njalo, abazali bakholelwa ukuba bakhusela abantwana babo. Nangona kunjalo, abantwana baziva okungaphezulu kunokuba abantu abadala bekuqonda, ingakumbi xa kukho into engalunganga. Baba nomdla kwaye baxhalabe xa kukho into efihliweyo kubo.
Kungoko ke, kungcono ukuthetha nabantwana ngamava akho kunye neemvakalelo zabo, ukhethe ngononophelo amagama akho ngokusekelwe kubudala bomntwana kunye nenqanaba lokuqonda ukuqinisekisa ukuba ingcaciso ifanelekile kwaye iyaxhasa.
Iziganeko ezibuhlungu
Ukonzakala yindlela eqhelekileyo yokusabela kwiziganeko ezingaqhelekanga:
- Ukunyamalala, ukufa okanye ukwenzakala komzali okanye ilungu losapho elisondeleyo
- Ukulimala emzimbeni
- Ukuhlangabezana nemfazwe
- Ukuzibonela ubundlobongela okanye izoyikiso
- Ukubaleka ekhayeni lakho nakwelizwe lakho
- Ukungabikho ixesha elide kusapho lomntu
- Ukuxhatshazwa emzimbeni
- Udlama lasekhaya
- Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo
Iimpendulo zabantwana
Abantwana basabela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo xa besenzakele. Iimpendulo eziqhelekileyo ziquka:
- Ubunzima bokugxila nokufunda izinto ezintsha
- Umsindo, ukucaphuka, ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo
- Izikhalazo zomzimba ezifana nentlungu yesisu, intloko ebuhlungu, isiyezi, isicaphucaphu
- Usizi kunye nokuzihlukanisa
- Ixhala kunye noloyiko
- Umdlalo ongathandekiyo okanye ogqithisileyo
- Ukungazoli nokungahlaliseki
- Ukulila kakhulu, ukukhwaza kakhulu
- Ukubambelela kubazali babo
- Ubunzima bokulala okanye ukuvuka ebusuku
- Amaphupha amabi aphindaphindayo
- Uloyiko lobumnyama
- Uloyiko lwengxolo enkulu
- Uloyiko lokuba wedwa